little bits of churlishness

It's not so much the big arguments which have ground me down it's the little moments where when something isn't right and she takes it out on me.

An example is this morning.

Last time she sent me for vape juice at the local, her usual order of "jam on toast" was discontinued (and I told her that at the time). So when I was asked to get that flavour on my way home today, and I reminded her it's discontinued and hence why she had strawberry last time her mood soured.

5 minutes later she reminded me that my leather wrist strap was in the bathroom but then queried where it had come from. I honestly could not remember other than it was cheap for the Elvira costume. 

"There's a lot of things just appearing lately"  to which I told her I've had it a long time, she's moved it about countless times and to be honest it had been stored in the shed with my other stuff untill she permitted my stuff in the house after the mold outbreak.

Now this was insulting as she often just tells me I owe to her antiques and house clearance seller she does appraisal for which is usually. The issue is we agreed to keep that below £20 a month 2 years back, but there's always something she "just couldn't walk away from" meaning the average coat has been a touch over £30 per month for a long time.

So what if I bought a cheap bracelet, because f knows I need something nice.